Making sense of it.

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Have you often wandered why your partner, spouse, husband or wife is only affectionate in public or when there is an audience. When in private they are distant and cold.

Have you ever noticed arguments going around in circles, never resolving the issue. 

In private you notice your partner, spouse, husband or wife is cold, distant and ignores you. It might not be a season it could be a pattern.

When you prioritise someone else and always put their need first, things are smooth and calm, but as soon as you express your needs, everything shifts

The children seem to be an inconvenience, ignored  and the focus is on absorbing your attention. 

When a partner, spouse, husband or wife lies constantly, or is it more than just lies, does the pattern indicate something more dangerous.

You are in a relationship yet you feel alone, even though when you are together.

Out of nowhere your partner shouts at you, leaving you feeling confused and scared.

Every time something happens, you have to be the one to say sorry, not because you did something wrong but for it all to stop and go back to how it was.

I feel like I'm the only one who wants this relationship to work, and I get blamed for everything even when it's not my fault.